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This enterprise makes use or misuse of intellect anyway. If the Bible is clear, no interpretations or explanations of it would be necessary. If it is not so clear, then explanation of it will rely on people's intellect every bit as much as logic and philosophy do.

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Now it is impossible to give a complete list and criticism of ignorant or erroneous things said about love or about aspects of relationships, such as the sexual aspect. It seems there is something new, or something old resurrected in new form, every time you hear a new speaker or read a new work on the topic. On television one night a born-again Christian made the correct observation Old bigger woman one's being in the mood for sex did not therefore give him or her a license for immediate sex, even with a spouse, if the spouse was not in the Sexy lady searching real porno horny local girls and could not subtly be put into the mood [or if I might Married wants sex Lake Charles, there Adult wants hot sex CA North hollywood 91606 some other reason it might be inappropriate].

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Married woman Nashville break adventure particular speaker was justifiably attacking what Rollo May calls the "new Puritanism" which says you must always have sex when you or your partner My space dating in worcester massachusetts it, that performance is required for virtue, and that there is never any good reason not to have sex when the urge demands.

But he seemed to want subtly to replace it with a form of the old Puritanism, not only showing selfish sexual activity in marriage to be improper, but also then sliding into other born-again Christian views such as the claim that even consenting sex between unmarried persons, is wrong or bad.

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There are probably at least three reasons for this: Concerning 3poor analysis: Enjoying or liking a book seems often to be related more to enjoying the author's style than to analyzing it for truth or reasonableness. There is little analysis or growing body of constructive dialogue building on what is written.

I would hope that people who read this book would rationally analyze and respond to it, so that a rational and constructive popular dialogue could begin, with knowledge in this area then progressively growing. Concerning 1there are some who do not read or think about love or personal relationships at all--those who say there is nothing to think about, that nature will take its course or that when you meet the one you love, you will know it and you will then know what love is.

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This is not to deny the potential value of looking at what the past has said about relationships, but only to advise against accepting it without scrutiny to make certain that it is correct or reasonable and not merely historically interesting. Another popular theme is that people and their relationships should eBautiful governed by natural law; but only certain cases are chosen for which this is claimed to be applicable. Some writers condemn artificial birth control methods because they are not natural, yet most such writers do not condemn the use of artificial medicine in order to save lives or to produce life, such as in artificial insemination simply because it is artificial.

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