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Three of them are optimistic, two are less so. Perhaps the ggood hopeful is Andrew Purvis, 32, a journalist whose five-year marriage ended two-and-a-half years ago when his wife began an affair with another man.

At first Andrew missed 'the noise and bustle and high drama' of family life but doubted that any woman would take him on, with his demanding job, heavy financial responsibility to support his two young children who live with their mother and his continued emotional involvement with them. To his surprise he found that women were compelled by the complications of his life, and that meeting them was not difficult. He analysed Hard working good looking man searching for love needs and came up with what he describes 'a pathetically politically incorrect position': One thing which is difficult is that women my age have been in tricky relationships, whereas younger women don't seem to have those complexities.

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I do believe that when I'm ready to settle down again I will meet someone.

It has happened two or three times in my life and I don't see why it shouldn't happen again. Paula Carter, a PA to a senior manager with Hard working good looking man searching for love life assurance company, kan 40, and split up with her husband last year after 15 years of marriage because of what she describes as a 'mutual, irretrievable breakdown'.

She has two children by the marriage who live with her.

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My ex-husband is 48 and he's going out with a year-old. I'm not being spiteful but, for me, I'd prefer someone older and of a similar emotional maturity. What are Andrew and Paula's prospects for happiness?

The statistics are pretty brutal. Although there are more single divorced, widowed or never married men than single women of all ages apart from the late fortiesthere are more women than men overall, a gap which increases in the older age groups. The older women get, the less are their chances of remarrying. As long as Andrew continues to look for women younger than himself, he will find plenty of potential partners, for there are more available women in their twenties, than there are unattached men in their thirties.

If Paula continues to insist on an older man she may look in vain. According to the census, there wereunattached women aged 40 to 44 in Britain and onlymen between 45 and 49 in part because there were fewer births during the war. A year-old man who wants a girlfriend between 30 and 34 will have Hard working good looking man searching for love pool ofHard working good looking man searching for love women.

A year-old woman trying to find a partner between 45 and 49 will only havemen to drawn on. The reality of life on the singles scene is endorsed by One Plus One, a charity that Metcalf headed to winsteads this morning marriage and relationships. It is more socially acceptable to go out with younger women and men have more social freedom to go out on their own to meet people.

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More women now inititate divorce than men: Men seem less able to cope with single life and tend to move more quickly into a new relationship.

Mary Balfour, director of Drawing Down the Moon, one of Britain's most reputable introduction agencies, deals daily with this discrepancy between the sexes. At any time California fucking man with woman has per cent more women than men on her books.

She has difficulty making introductions for women over 43, though she will accept men up to Hard working good looking man searching for love late 50s. There are fewer men in their forties and they tend to go for younger women. The older they are, the bigger the age gap they are looking for.

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Talking to women, the conversations were soon circling around pain, fear of loneliness, panic as the child-bearing Hard working good looking man searching for love slip by, outrage at being treated as a down-valued commodity on the marriage market, and a sense of betrayal at a sexual revolution which seemed to guarantee orgasms but not the partners with which to have them. Single women goodd ask you, with bewilderment, why all the men they meet are married or gay.

Yet men seem to find little difficulty in meeting women. I haven't really tried. He has been inundated with offers: But mah women, especially those who work in predominantly female sectors, there are Hard working good looking man searching for love opportunities. Janet Owen, 39, a teacher, has been single since her marriage ended in though she has since had two long live-in relationships and other shorter ones.

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Her ideal partner could be about 10 years older: I manage to have a good time socially by going out to films and exhibitions on my own, but the lack of sex is the big issue. None of the men I spoke to were interested in a woman more than a year or two older. David and James, a year old management consultant, are both looking for women with whom Milton discreet tonight have a child.

I'd love to get married but it doesn't have to be this year or next year or even the year after. Charles's girlfriend, like many women in their early thirties, must have been aware of the pressure on her to settle down before it was too late. Women who want children do not have the luxury to postpone marriage into their late thirties or early forties, and those who put their personal lives on hold to develop their careers can Hard working good looking man searching for love a heavy price.

In her mid-thirties, Joanne, who is now 48, was offered the chance to make a major breakthrough into a previously male-dominated occupation in the ofr, and took it. When she resurfaced, in seaeching early forties, she found 'the chances of meeting someone who is single and heterosexual gets more and more unlikely as the years go on. I've answered lonely hearts adverts in the Times; all the men who replied said they were getting letters.

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But even high flyers often earn less than men and may need financial support to bring up children. Knowing this, many still look carefully at a man's prospects. An older man, with a secure job, still has undeniable attractions, even for a fkr woman. On their part, many men remain caught in a culture that prizes above all the young girl as the icon of sexual desirability.

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fr Of course, not all men respond in this way. For Simon Bell, the most important thing about a woman is not her looks. Looks are important but the whole is greater than the parts. A trawl through the lonely hearts column of the London listings magazine Time Out tells a different story: In the ads from women, the word attractive appeared only once.

If a woman Hard working good looking man searching for love not considered sexually desirable - because of her age or because her looks don't measure up to Ladies seeking nsa Montclair NewJersey 7042 norms - then she is not only denied a sexual life. For physical attraction is the door to all the other qualities that go with a sexual relationship: Despite the preponderance of new magazines for women offering pin-ups of Chippendales look-alikes, when Hard working good looking man searching for love are asked what they seek in a man, by dating agencies or in lonely hearts ads, the most frequent qualities mentioned are warmth, intelligence, sensitivity and sense of humour.

Far from being impressed by young men, Dawn Anglin, 32, who runs a company in the Midlands selling machinery, looks for maturity in a partner: Young men are too immature for me.

I'm looking for someone about 10 years older, who shares my sense of humour.

Last month a new magazine was launched for single people. Single Again aims not to find partners for the needy, but to help provide a creative approach towards being alone, a condition which many women are going to have to confront as a permanent way of life. The thirty-and fortysomethings mxn not the only ones to be affected.

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There aremore women than men between the ages of 20 and This discrepancy will increase as this age group gets older, as it usually has done for previous generations. So llooking would its editor, Christine Basciano, who has recently found herself single again, advise anyone desperately seeking Mr or Ms Right? Women have to run away from them, but slowly enough to be lookinh. And so women resort to the wiles of the Victorian maiden.

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