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To clarify, my name was misphrased because I was about 11 hours into a grave shift when I wrote it. Guys like Hot ladies seeking casual sex Albuquerque New Mexico I admit who are not sports builds or models, but who have college degrees, a good paycheck, and a personality that is deeper than a childrens pool have to work much harder at getting either meaningless sex OR a relationship due to first impressions.
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It is funny though, because even after a difficult ice breaking encounter, their attitude changes a bit after they find out about my paycheck… but thats for another board discussing another issue. I think our western culture emphasizes the high of chemical excitement of immediately obliterating romantic sex or just sex so much that both genders fall to the ones that obviously ooze that charisma, no matter what their personality or values.
The baddies in films are more than not, drooled over by women all over the planet. Good for fantasy, bad for real life. Women are particularly susceptible though the guys get hooked as well. Despite our contemporary view of sex and relationships both biologically and socially, I think that the force of sexual allurement is still underestimated, still wildly primitive and likely to remain so for both genders. Not all will be blinded by this, and not just the unattractive and these are likely to be the golden ones.
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But it was until just 7 years ago I came to the UK. I have been working here in London since then and have found myself became more westernised.
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At some point I started convincing myself that open-mind Western girls are more suitable for me. I also believed I am a person who should look for a gender equal partnership rather than traditional Japanese way Later on I realised my behaviour is highly influenced by Japanese mind set through some experience with European girl friends though….
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Being in my 30s and divorced when I arrived may have made a difference to my experiences. Albuqyerque Japanese and one European. Some people are way too shy to speak, and padies language barrier is a major factor as others have said.
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The biggest problem is the social structure and the inherent chauvinism. Most of the foreign women I knew ended up dating other expats, from anywhere from Europe to Africa.
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Allow me to underscore some of the issues here. You thought 9 months was a long time. You never even got past the first stage of living abroad before you gave up.
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Be it a common social group, work, or mutual friends. The latter is the rule in Japan. So much in Japan is done by word of mouth and mutual trust. The worst thing that can happen to anyone in Japan is to be ostracized. Generally speaking, you need to meet people in serious settings to find people interested in serious relationships.
This goes for any country. For the previous to work, you need to make friends with local females. They will be your best resource to local males. You have to leave the comfort zone of the gaijin bubble. Your coworkers should be your first target for friend-making. Give them presents and show them respect, chances are you will be accepted. The key to making friends with Japanese is showing honest consideration — not in words, in fact almost never in words.
It must be done in small acts of kindness, with a smile. This is actually much easier for women in general. For a guy to gain acceptance is a little harder. So use this liberally, make local friends. Leave the bubble. Your condescension towards Japanese men and women is very obvious. Work on it. Carrying on with the perception issues, another is that Western Women are high maintenance.
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For a guy to seriously date Japanese women, we have to also get accustomed to different expectations. The difference is that, the expectations in our home country largely exceed those in Japan. That might mean you prove the perception wrong. You will want to take steps to mitigate those perceptions in the early stages, however. You may also express to your local friends your concerns. Japanese, regardless of sex, are 28 white seeking ebony don to treat Americans, regardless of sex, as play toys.
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